In my control

  • my boundaries
  • my response
  • my energy
  • the way I speak
  • who I choose to spend my time with
  • my attitude
  • processing emotions
  • the way I treat others
  • my self-talk

Out of my control

  • others’ opinion of me
  • other people’s beliefs/behaviors
  • outcomes
  • the past
  • the future
  • ageing
  • the way people speak to me
  • time
  • what others say about me
  • external events
  • the way people treat me